I think my husband may be getting bored with me in bed. Any tips on how to make it better? -Help Needed!
Ahh, there are sooo many ways! There are a wide variety of toys, videos, books, etc to spice up any love life. I would suggest www.spiceoflifeparties.com for a great start. Try role-playing, hand cuffs, blind folds, think of new positions, get a sexy outfit.
  Ask what his fantasies are and make them come true! Guys can get bored sexually very quickly, so make your more fast before he finds someone more interesting to screw.

I am a semi-famous musician/producer/personality. I always run into people at shows or at the store or just about everywhere I go. Sometimes it’s guys in a band and sometimes it’s star struck girls. My question to you is, how do I make these fans feel appreciated, while still keeping my girlfriend, who is by my side, happy? I can’t just brush them off, ‘cause we need every fan we can get at this point, but I don’t want to stand and give my life story to everyone who recognizes me. I know it frustrates my girlfriend when we are hounded by people asking for autographs and slipping me demos. Help me balance my act. -Hounded in Hampton
 
If you’re semi-famous now, things will only get worse as you get more and more known. If your girlfriends wants to take advantage of the fame andmoney you will have some day, she better get used to it! It is your job to make her feel that she is your first priority. Those people you meet on thestreet won’t be cooking your dinner and occupying your bed! Until you get to the point where you have tons of groupies and don’t need her, you better shape up and treat her like a lady should be treated!
 

There’s this girl I’ve known for a few years now and recently she’s been giving me hints and clues that she wants to start going out. I do care about her and do want to go out with her, but everytime I ask her if she wants to go out, she always has something to do. I mean, being busy is alright, but it’s almost like she is avoiding going out with me. She is almost blatant with the hints and clues and stuff. What should I do?
- Confused in Midland
 
It sounds to me like she’s playing games. Ask her straight out if she’s interested or not. If she is, find a day she’s available right then and hold her to it. Otherwise, move on. If she’s playing games before you even start dating, I can only imagine how she’ll screw up your head if you did get into a relationship. Who knows the extent of her insanity.
 

I work with a girl who is dating this guy who is much older than her and not very attrative. Wheneverany female, regardless of appearance, talks to him, she completely freaks out. What’s her deal?
-Curious in Cranberry
 
Well, I’d say she has seriuous jealousy issues. She is obviously very insecure in herself and this relationship, which is backed up by the point that she is dating an ugly, old fogie. I would stay far away from both of them. When the green eyed monster attacks, it can be viscous. Let her spend her life being miserable and jealous. It’ll only make her crazy in the end. Who needs another wacko around? This world has enoguh of them already!
 

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